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What Stories Are You Telling Yourself?

  • “I’m not good enough.” Or, “I’m a work in progress.”

  • “I’m stuck.” Or, “I’m ready!”

  • “I can’t catch a break.” Or, “There’s opportunity in every obstacle.”

  • “I’m scared.” Or, “Isn’t that interesting...?”

  • “No one ever helps me.” Or, “Let’s go!”

  • “I don’t deserve more.” Or, “I am worthy.”

  • “I must put my family first.” Or, “I must take care of myself to best serve others.”

  • “I need to learn more.” Or, “I know enough to start.”

  • “I don’t know how to start.” Or, “I’ll start where I am.”

  • “What if I fail?” Or, “Failure is not fatal.”

  • “What’ll people think?” Or, “Shun the non-believers.”

  • “I can’t afford the time or...

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Grace

 

Grace is the act of extending forgiveness or mercy. The word itself comes from the same root as that of gratitude and is embedded deeply into the practice of generosity. Grace requires and promotes excellence of character which includes both moral virtue and ethical will.

Grace is central to many of the world’s religions and most impactful social movements. Turning the other cheek, forgiving those who harm you, and embracing anguish and misfortune are powerful and moving responses to trying situations.

Nothing is more challenging than the pursuit and practice of grace. That’s why it’s so valued and worth your persistent effort.

Only grace leads to enlightenment, wisdom, and transcendence. And grace begins with you.

How can you possibly extend forgiveness and mercy to others if you can’t yet extend them to yourself? You are an imperfect being. A broken vessel carrying around a fragile soul. Be kind to yourself, and it will be much easier to extend kindness to...

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Who’s In Charge?

“Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle. Some things are within our control, and some things are not.” - Epictetus

Agency is as intoxicating as it is elusive. When the breaks go your way, it’s easy to believe it’s due to your intelligence and planning. When things go awry, it’s easy to blame others or fate.

The truth is, very little within your control, but at the same time, you do control everything required to maintain your sense of well-being and prosperity.

You ultimately control only two things. You determine how you choose to perceive yourself, others, and your situation. You also control what you decide to do next.

Everything else is beyond your control.

Your body is subject to disease, decline, and ultimately death. The attitude and behavior of others are for them to decide, not you. And there are forces far more powerful than you at work in the social, political, economic, cultural, and geographical arenas.

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Free Will Is a Seductive Delusion

Is “what happens next” due to fate or the exercise of your free will?

It's comforting to believe you control what happens next. But do you? What if what happens next has already been decided? What if everything that happens is fated?

"My formula for greatness in a human being is amor fati: that one wants nothing to be different, not forward, not backward, not in all eternity." - Friedrich Nietzsche

Why not love fate? A life that is fated does not imply that it just happens to you. Life also happens through you.

In a fated cosmos, you may be a tiny cog in the machinery of the universe, but you still have a vital role to play.

Past events alone don't determine your future. You can, and should, be an active participant in your life now. How your life proceeds may be fated, but it also reflects your character. Why not do your best and let what unfolds be what it will be?

Acceptance of what happens next is the path to well-being in your endeavor. This doesn’t make you...

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Where Art Goes to Die

personal development Oct 22, 2018

Art transforms culture. Art elevates and enhances generations. Philosophy and jazz are just two examples of art that changed the culture in which they were born.

Yet when these arts were dragged into the halls of academia to be dissected and disseminated, they died. Sure, you can argue that within the halls of academia philosophy and jazz are on life support. But in the popular context, they are all but extinguished.

This isn't a rant against teachers. Teachers matter. In fact, teachers are vital. If you want to learn anything worth doing, you must learn from those who already do it. But you don't have to go get schooled in an academic institution to learn about the art of living or how to swing.

In fact, I'm asserting you shouldn't.

In order to systematize, institutionalize, and monetize a subject, academics take it apart, prioritize the pieces, and codify them into a curriculum. They put the subject under glass. Nothing thrives under glass or this kind of...

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What's the Point?

personal development Oct 15, 2018

Contemplating life's big questions can make you really uncomfortable. But if you seek meaning and significance, it's worth it.

Here are some that I've asked myself many times:

  • What is the meaning of life?
  • Why am I here?
  • What's the point?

And the answers I arrive at are never final. They change with the situations, the scenery, and the souls I'm surrounded by through each season of my life.

Here's a process you may find helpful for assessing your current level of satisfaction with important aspects of your life and how well balanced it currently is.

There are questions worth asking yourself and processes worth considering.

What questions are you asking yourself today? What process are you using to answer them?

Keep Flying Higher!

Scott

BTW, in my upcoming book, Endeavor, I begin with these three questions:

  • What does it mean to be human?
  • What does it mean to be happy?
  • How can I be more of both?

Endeavor also explores a process for thriving through work that...

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Unleash the Assertions!

Uncategorized Oct 08, 2018

Certainty and confidence are tools of the status quo. They cultivate fixed mindsets, false beliefs, and inertia. Certainty and confidence discourage imagination, innovation, and investigation. Even worse, they dissuade the human instinct for curiosity, courage, and creativity.

And the world needs more curiosity, courage, and creativity now more than ever.

It's time to abandon our addiction to certainty and confidence. It's time to question our firmly held beliefs. It's time to embrace curiosity, courage, and creativity. It's time to bring our assertions.

Assertions are ideas we hold true based on our observation and experience. When we put them forth to be “tested” we not only open the door to empathetically engage and understand someone else’s observation and experience, but we are afforded the opportunity to iterate and improve our good ideas and abandon our bad ones.

Assertions employ our curiosity and courage and help us avoid the pitfalls of...

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The Virtues of Enrollment (and the Perils of Inertia)

Uncategorized Oct 01, 2018

It begins, like an itch, with awareness. You see a challenge or an opportunity.

You pay attention. The itch intensifies. You begin to ask questions like  "What's going on here?" "Is this worth paying attention to?" and "I wonder what happens next?"

It's time to decide. Are you scratching the itch or ignoring it? Are you going to enroll in this endeavor? If you do it can change the way you feel, see, or engage with the world. If you don't, one thing is certain. Nothing will change.

Inertia is the tool of the status quo. The status quo is a force that keeps you humble, hiding, unfulfilled, and asleep. Enrollment is the tool of the change agent. Enrollment is a force that drives the ruckus maker, the potential developer, and the wide awake.

So what's it going to be today? Inertia or enrollment?

It's your journey. Choose well. 

And keep flying higher!

Scott

 

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Are You "Winning" in the Game of Life?

personal development Sep 24, 2018

In the game of life, are you playing a finite game or an infinite game?

James Carse's short book about this is worth tracking down and reading.

The Finite Game Approach to Life

A finite game has clear rules and ends with clear winners and clear losers. 

Winning a finite game of life means following the rules. Do as you're told, get schooled, get a job, get promoted, get married, have kids, get a big house, buy a lot of stuff, etc. This game ends in fortune and status.

That is if you win.

But in order for you and your "team" to win, others and their team must lose.

You know people who are playing the finite game of life. Are they the happiest, healthiest, and most human folks you know? 

A finite game isn't very satisfying because it's out of alignment with our natural impulse to present, grateful, and serve others.

A Different Approach - The Infinite Game of Life

An infinite game has a different intent, to be able to keep playing. This can only happen if...

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*tap*tap*tap* "Is this Thing On?"

Uncategorized Sep 17, 2018

Communicating with Intention and Integrity

Not everyone wants to stand up and be seen or speak up and be heard. But if you do, have something to say worth sharing and lean into learning how to say it well!

Here are some questions we ask in Seth Godin's The Marketing Seminar that you can ask yourself to help you craft a message that hits the mark and initiate the transformation you seek to make.

Who's it for?

Have you clearly defined a small group of individuals who will benefit from your wisdom? What are their common needs, wants, dreams, and desires? Do you have their permission to connect? Their attention? Their trust? 

What's it for?

Is what you're saying serving others or yourself? What change do you seek to make through your message? What insight, information, or inspiration do you intend to impart? What action do you want those listening to take?

What promise are you making?

What's the outcome your audience will experience if they act on what you share? Will the...

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