Insight and Inspiration for Flying Higher in Endeavors that Make a Difference
“I’m not good enough.” Or, “I’m a work in progress.”
“I’m stuck.” Or, “I’m ready!”
“I can’t catch a break.” Or, “There’s opportunity in every obstacle.”
“I’m scared.” Or, “Isn’t that interesting...?”
“No one ever helps me.” Or, “Let’s go!”
“I don’t deserve more.” Or, “I am worthy.”
“I must put my family first.” Or, “I must take care of myself to best serve others.”
“I need to learn more.” Or, “I know enough to start.”
“I don’t know how to start.” Or, “I’ll start where I am.”
“What if I fail?” Or, “Failure is not fatal.”
“What’ll people think?” Or, “Shun the non-believers.”
“I can’t afford the time or...
Grace is the act of extending forgiveness or mercy. The word itself comes from the same root as that of gratitude and is embedded deeply into the practice of generosity. Grace requires and promotes excellence of character which includes both moral virtue and ethical will.
Grace is central to many of the world’s religions and most impactful social movements. Turning the other cheek, forgiving those who harm you, and embracing anguish and misfortune are powerful and moving responses to trying situations.
Nothing is more challenging than the pursuit and practice of grace. That’s why it’s so valued and worth your persistent effort.
Only grace leads to enlightenment, wisdom, and transcendence. And grace begins with you.
How can you possibly extend forgiveness and mercy to others if you can’t yet extend them to yourself? You are an imperfect being. A broken vessel carrying around a fragile soul. Be kind to yourself, and it will be much easier to extend kindness to...
“Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle. Some things are within our control, and some things are not.” - Epictetus
Agency is as intoxicating as it is elusive. When the breaks go your way, it’s easy to believe it’s due to your intelligence and planning. When things go awry, it’s easy to blame others or fate.
The truth is, very little within your control, but at the same time, you do control everything required to maintain your sense of well-being and prosperity.
You ultimately control only two things. You determine how you choose to perceive yourself, others, and your situation. You also control what you decide to do next.
Everything else is beyond your control.
Your body is subject to disease, decline, and ultimately death. The attitude and behavior of others are for them to decide, not you. And there are forces far more powerful than you at work in the social, political, economic, cultural, and geographical arenas.
Is “what happens next” due to fate or the exercise of your free will?
It's comforting to believe you control what happens next. But do you? What if what happens next has already been decided? What if everything that happens is fated?
"My formula for greatness in a human being is amor fati: that one wants nothing to be different, not forward, not backward, not in all eternity." - Friedrich Nietzsche
Why not love fate? A life that is fated does not imply that it just happens to you. Life also happens through you.
In a fated cosmos, you may be a tiny cog in the machinery of the universe, but you still have a vital role to play.
Past events alone don't determine your future. You can, and should, be an active participant in your life now. How your life proceeds may be fated, but it also reflects your character. Why not do your best and let what unfolds be what it will be?
Acceptance of what happens next is the path to well-being in your endeavor. This doesn’t make you...
Your life, your work, your year. When you look back at each of these, you can lose sight that they are built from months, days, hours, and minutes.
But it’s in each moment that you have an opportunity to start, or try, or test.
Each juncture provides an opportunity to face obstacles, misfortunes, and challenges with greater clarity and equanimity.
Each instant is a chance for you to succeed or fail, but also to learn, to grow. The opportunity for you to develop yourself.
And the next moment is your next chance to start again, or restart, or quit, or pivot, or change course.
And that’s how every endeavor is built. How each project, your life’s work, and your very life itself is constructed. Goal by goal. Action by action. Result by result.
Accepting what comes and then deciding what to do next.
Living and working moment to moment interrupts the voice of doubt living in your head. The self-critic, the over-planner, and the over-thinker that tries to hijack your...
Getting your ducks in a row?
Your ship to come in?
The planets to align?
The “right” time?
The ducks will line themselves up. You don’t even own a ship. And, when was the last time you took the time to check on the planets?
Time is everyone’s most valuable resource. You’re never going to have more of it than you do right now. Why are you wasting it?
Every moment of every day is another step toward your ultimate end.
The time is now. Now is the time.
“While we wait for life, life passes.” - Seneca